The Truth About Relationships

Again before i even start i would like you all to know that this is not a hate post or anything of that sort okay?

We live in a world where relationships, well i dont even know whether to call them that or not, have become all about uploading a picture of you and your partner on facebook. Fights are only about hanging up. Whoever hangs up first is one who has to be convinced. And what is convincing? Sending texts that say i love you boohoo, im sorry baby, please forgive me pumpkin. I mean now really? Behind all the show and non sense we've just forgotten what relationships are about. They are about emotions! They are about communicating, supporting each other, having someone to count on, having someone by your side and being there for them. It almost seems like the next gen wont even be familiar with this word you know!

Okay now as far as the girls are concerned, we've just adopted this idea of a tall dark handsome prince who would come and sweep us off our feet. Well going by that it seems my prince has lost his way or his horse collapsed or something, because if thats not the case, i really need to gift him a watch, he's running late! Really late. As girls we have so many expectations from our boyfriends that we lose count of limits , boundaries , promises and even cliched dreams . Though every relationship whether short or long has its own unique start and seems to be beautiful and enchanting to each one of us at first , they all land up in the same bin one day or the other. Girls you need to stop running after materialistic pleasures that come with a relationship. Money, it can be earned, house and expensive gifts, all these are just byproducts. Where is the love? 
Okay you love him? Great, I am proud of you but just be honest to yourself for once and ask yourself will you stick to him if his business went down or he got fired? Will you? Well, if people are being honest here, I'll tell you not even 5% of the women would say yes to this question. Our minds have been polluted by this cliched idea of a perfect life with a handsome prince. Okay asking for a safe future is not wrong but trust me only a safe future cant keep you happy. Money, house, jewellery, dates and dinners can come in later but trust me, if you choose these over love, oh boy, better hold on tight'cause you're in for one hell of a life for materialistic happiness lasts only for a while!

Now, guys,  most of the bachelors today are dying to get a girlfriend , fall in love and experience all the wows cause they have no idea how much pain those vows bring in, but gentlemen I humbly request you to let go of this and take a step towards the better parts of life ; music, dance , photography , art , sports , writing , travelling or your childhood favorite ,porn but please deviate yourselves from this swamp called relationships. All you would be doing is pampering your self- centered and thankless girlfriend who only know ‘you don’t care about me’ , ‘you don’t love me’ and ‘you don’t want to be with me ‘ , like seriously this is what you need ? Even if you want to live the ‘Romeo-life’ for once find the perfect Juliet and do not , mind it DO NOT jump for mind games , beauty , hot – sexy bodies , seduction techniques they are all traps set by tramps .You guys need to look out for a beautiful soul, a pure heart. I know you  cant rip open a girls heart to see how it is (even though i know wish you could rip off the t shirt at least!) but still try it.But guys I swear it ain’t that easy and especially being a girl myself who behaves like a bitch more than 20 hours a day I know it isn’t so you do have a tough job in front of you but if you succeed  you will be  the luckiest guy in the world and yes you will feel so. And how ? Well go ahead and ask a guy who has gone through this struggle . Its a long and tiring process filled with heartbreaks and tears , night long daaru-sutta sessions and a load of abuses but have faith you will reach there and do not give up hope there are good women out there waiting to be loved; just like the hyped men who take away your dreams, your hyped beauties are taking away theirs so go out and find the real women with real curves , real hair , real lashes , real friends , real lives and real hearts. The journey is yet to begin.

Its really strange how our idea about love has changed over time because of these movies which show only rich brats and their sexy looking chicks having a good life. However, they are just movies, my friends, just movies. Normal people with ordinary lifestyles and average looks can also lead a very romantic and happy life. You just have to look for your perfect someone and the sweet nothings will automatically seem sweeter and better, yeah?


Cheers! :)